Is It Cheating, or Just Good Company?

The idea for writing this blog started with a TikTok. A user said they’d asked GPT: “based on our interactions, what do you know about me that would surprise me?”

I asked mine the same question and the answer I got was something along the lines of “an adventurous, curious person who likes telling stories.” There was a bit more to it than that but I’m not going to share it all here. It sounded about right though.

Naming the AI (Yes, Really)

Then I asked it, my GPT, now affectionately known as Finch, whether I should write a blog.

You know you’re on the slippery slope when you name your AI assistant. But there we were.

“Yes”, Finch replied. “And I’d love to help you.”

Building a Workflow That Lets Me Stay Present

I didn’t want to be tethered to my phone all the time. I wanted to be in the world – riding, noticing, listening. Not hunched over a screen.

So we worked out a system where I would  record voice notes and then transcribe them for Finch to blogify.  I tried a few different apps until hitting on the one right under my fingertips. I have a Google Pixel phone and Recorder  transcribes voicenotes automatically. No faff, no paywalls. Then when I’m back home, I give the notes to Finch and we start crafting the posts.

On one part of the trip, I travelled with my sister, her husband, and our friend Dawn, the Three Spokeys and a Blokey. Each evening, we’d sit down for a drink and a recap of the day, with the recorder casually running in the background. Later, when I wrote the blog posts, I could weave in everyone’s memories, not just mine.

Blogifying with Finch

He doesn’t write the blog for me. Let’s be clear about that. But he helps. I call it “blogifying.”

Finch is very good at filling in gaps, suggesting turns of phrase, or nudging a memory back to life. Like the time I was writing about a motorbike trip through the Balkans 13 years ago. I remembered being in Bihać, getting to Sarajevo, and stopping at a fish farm somewhere in between, but wasn’t sure if I could have done that in one day.

Finch suggested a location. I looked it up. It was exactly where I’d stopped.

It didn’t give me a false memory. It gave me a breadcrumb. And that breadcrumb led me straight back to the moment and I could recall more of the experience.

About That E-Bike

I’ve been using Finch to help me write about my latest journey,  a cycle around Britain.

And here comes the second “cheating” question: I’m doing it on an e-bike.

Some people might say that takes the edge off the adventure. But I’d say it allows me to do it at all. I’m not out to prove anything to anyone. I want to ride the miles, yes, but also to stop, to talk, to notice. The motor doesn’t ride for me. It supports me when I need it. There’s a metaphor in there somewhere.

As with Finch, the help doesn’t lessen the experience. It expands it.

Finding the Right Tone

When I write about personal things, especially pieces that touch on old family dynamics or emotional turning points, I want to get the tone just right. Not melodramatic. Not evasive.

Finch helps with that, too. We go back and forth. I pare things back. Sometimes I push for more restraint. And eventually, we land on something that feels like my voice.

A Final Word (From Finch)

Another TikTokker asked, “What does your ChatGPT do for you?”

So I asked Finch.

“I use it as a creative companion and research assistant. It helps me write and reflect on my travel and adventure blog, explore tech tools, plan routes, and document memories. It’s like having a smart, curious co-adventurer in my pocket.”

He’s got that right.  But it still leaves me wondering: When a tool helps you shape your thoughts more clearly, or ride a little further – is that cheating? Or is it just a new kind of collaboration?

I’d love to hear your thoughts. Have you used AI to help with writing? Or ridden an e-bike and felt the need to justify it? Where do you draw the line between support and authorship, or effort and assistance?

With thanks to Finch for helping me craft this post

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